Grounding
When we’re in a state of loneliness or disconnection things can feel very inward looking. We are more likely to be self critical, to ruminate on negative thoughts and to be suspicious of other. One of the keys to breaking this cycle is to put our attention out into the world and notice what’s going on around us.
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SEE
Look for five things you can see. Whereveryou are.
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TOUCH
Find four things you can touch and feel.
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HEAR
Listen to three things you can hear.
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SMELL
Notice two things you can smell.
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TASTE
Find one thing you can taste.
Exercise:
Stop what you’re doing, put away your phone, close your laptop
Ask yourself how your feeling on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 is the worst and 10 is the best
Work through the following prompts:
Look for fives things you can see
Find four things you can touch or feel
Listen for three things you can hear
Notice two things you can smell
Find one thing you can taste
Take a few breaths and notice how you’re feeling now -where do you sit on the scale?